COURAGEOUS is more than a course. It is a JOURNEY for Christian people-pleasers to live in the FREEDOM that Christ has already given us through Jesus.
"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go."
Joshua 1:9
Christ has already set you free. Learn to live in it!
People-pleasing. Fear of man. Approval addiction. Whatever you call it, it may have ruled your life for years—showing up as giving in to others, avoiding conflict, second-guessing yourself, or living with anxiety... But God.
Through the cross, Jesus set us free from everything that seeks to rule us. So why don’t we always feel free? Because there’s a difference between being set free and learning to walk in that freedom.
Is this journey for me?
Whether you're a
A Christian who is tired of giving in to others
A Christian husband who wants to lead better
A Christian wife who is afraid to speak up for herself
A Christian parent who allows their kids to get away with things because they're afraid to speak up
A Christian couple who avoids conflict out of fear or rejection
A Christian who desires to grow closer to God and be a God-pleaser
You're in the right place!
COURAGEOUS will provide you with the tools, inspiration, and wisdom to overcome your fears and become more assertive.
In just 5 weeks, you'll begin noticing real, lasting change in how you think, feel, and respond.
Specifically, you will begin to:
Understand the root causes of your people-pleasing - where it started and why it's been holding you back
Release hidden heart struggles and fears - you'll experience a new sense of peace and confidence as you take practical, grace-filled steps toward healing
Replace harmful lies with God's Truth - you'll walk away with specific truths that silence the lies you've believed and bring freedom in your thoughts.
Live more fully in God's grace - you'll begin operating from a new, life-giving "system" of grace instead of striving for approval
Stand firm in your identity in Christ - you'll grow in deep reverence for God, knowing who you truly are in Him
Take measurable steps toward becoming more like Jesus - you'll feel renewed, strengthened, and empowered to live out your faith authentically
How it all started...
I struggled with self-esteem.
At least that's what therapists would say in the 80's and 90's. I spent most of my youth seeking approval, praise, and recognition. But when I didn't get it, I became depressed. Even suicidal in the darkest days.
I was the nice Christian guy who found my group at church. You know, the ones who accepted me and laughed at my jokes.
Yet as I matured, went to college, and even married, the insecurities followed me.
It wasn't until I went to Seminary that the Lord revealed something I never truly considered. "Fred, you're a people-pleaser."
I spent years reading and working on myself, trying to overcome this all-too-common struggle. I asked myself the tough questions (and still do!) about who I am, vacillating between three answers: 1) Who God says I am; 2) who I believe I am; and 3) who others say I am. Why do I have a hard time saying, "No?" Why don't I speak up when I should? Why am I avoiding conflict? Why am I struggling to believe what God says?
Now, after 50 years of this struggle, God's Word, insights from the Holy Spirit, and the inspired writings of Godly people, I want to share lessons I've learned with you and help you become COURAGEOUS!
My unique method for overcoming people-pleasing
It was only after I realized how God had worked in me over the years that I understood how He had moved me to work through my people-pleasing tendencies. And now I'll be sharing it with you. And it's only available inside my program, COURAGEOUS.
The COURAGEOUS PATH consists of the FIVE essential steps to overcome people-pleasing.
These 5 Steps include:
1. ASSESSMENT
2. BATTLING BELIEFS
3. CAPTURING GRACE
4. DEMONSTRATING COURAGE
5. EVALUATION
The key is that you will be partnering with the Holy Spirit in truth and grace to grow in your journey to become like Christ.
While our efforts alone can't save us, we can partner with Him in our sanctification to put on what works and put off what doesn't.
You can choose to take this journey alone, but why not learn from someone who has been down this road?
Start Your Journey
and become COURAGEOUS!
FAQ's
Your spouse is welcome to join you in watching the videos to help grow or gain a better understanding of people-pleasing.
Once you register, you will be sent a link to your personal portal where you can watch the pre-recorded videos whenever and wherever you like (as long as there is internet).
If everything learned is applied, progress will come sooner rather than later! But remember, we are all works in progress, and change is not overnight. But keep applying everything taught in these lessons, and don't give up!
"He who began a good work in you will carry it out to completion." Php 1:6
Absolutely! Once registered, you will have access to The Courageous Journey online. As long as you have cell service or WiFi, you can watch the videos anywhere at any time.
Of Course! Here are three options offered:
1) Join our Facebook Community page by CLICKING HERE.
2) Join a Cohort and meet others working through the same struggle. The Cohort is only offered 1-2
times per year. Please click the "Join the Waitlist" button on the webpage.
3) I am also available for counseling through Foundations Christian Counseling Services.
4) Coming soon...The COURAGEOUS PATH Book & The COURAGEOUS Devotional
Join the Journey Today!
Your 5-Step Journey to experience freedom from people-pleasing!
© 2026 Fred Jacoby